I found out last night, that today, we would be hosting a brunch at our home for about 30 people… Mostly relatives and extended family. One of Fito’s aunts/uncles is visiting from Mexico and the family was gathering to celebrate and commune.

If I am truthful my first reaction was “Really? On my day off?”. However, I got over myself and the truth is there is usually a hearty sense of joy and connection whenever family gathers. Yes, there can be minor dramas to navigate,
but the laughter and reconnections are worth it.

Something else also happens for me. The normal routine is broken. The patterns and habits that fill my days are interrupted. It is as though I am looking through a new pair of glasses. I get to see some of the things in my life that I take for granted. The truth is love is all around us. Whether it is the offering of food or drink, the handshakes or hugs, the stories or the jokes~they are all expressions of someones love for us, for family and/or for our day-to-day lives. It is easy to get caught up in “work”, especially when you love what you do. For me, I am reminded that it is home and family that provides the foundation that I stand on, even when it is far from my thoughts.

Today is also Father’s Day… Another important day for reflection and gratitude (Happy Father’s Day Dad!). I hope whatever gatherings you have or will participate in this week were filled with lots of Joy and Connection AND that all the important Fathers/Padres in your life feel honored.