I’ve always wanted to spend time in Seattle. Almost 10 years ago, I was there for a day, to board a cruise ship headed for Alaska. I loved the little bit I saw of it, and wanted to see and experience more! As luck would have it, a dear friend moved there this year to be closer to grandkids. And, this past week I spent time with her in this charming city.
I always imagined it being a city of small neighborhoods. Much like San Diego. And it was. I could see how you could become ingrained in a community with all of the unique things it has to offer. I suppose it is like that in Phoenix too. But, the uniqueness of each community is what is different. Here, a new subdivision goes in and the first thing that happens is you see a new Home Depot, Costco, Walmart and Target.
Restaurants are chains, and so are many of the shops. Don’t get me wrong, I love living in Phoenix. It is where I want to be. And yet, I remember living in San Diego, where for years, I parked my car on Friday after work, and didn’t have to drive again until Monday morning when it was time to head back to the office.
Ahh.., the pros and cons of life.
My friend wanted to make sure I had a fulfilling taste of Seattle. We checked out a number of places from Pike Place to the Museum of Flight. We even drove outside the city to a small community called LaConner. But in truth, we were simply changing the location of our constant conversation!
These conversations that help me to realize that we are all experiencing similar things. Our circumstances may be different and locations too. Yet, the people we are most connected to seem to be in parallel process.
This feels like a time for getting clear. Choosing what is most aligned with where we are going and what we are creating. New levels of trust are emerging. We have done the dance with the unknown and now know that everything ‘works out’. Even if sometimes it works out in a way that we could not have imagined.
This also means we are letting go of and releasing things from our lives that may be a bit of a surprise. Relationships, homes, jobs or whatever. People, places and things that seemed like they would always be there. Slipping into the background and becoming part of the backdrop of our lives, versus something that we are engaging and interacting with.
And then there are those other situations where the connection and fit seem to be even stronger. Where the history and shared journey are still active and important to our personal journey. And that is what I am celebrating today.
I wondered what it would be like when my dear friend moved to Seattle. Would it be as easy to stay connected? How would we craft and create the circumstances to see one another? After one visit, my wondering is over. Distance does not determine the strength of connection when Love is what bonds you!
We all have those long distance connections that are important in our lives. What a great day to celebrate all of our friendship… Near and far!
With Light, Love, and Laughter
Charles
I needed to hear that! ⛵️
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Hi Charles, you just articulated what I’ve been feeling, thank you! And as you pointed out, my circle of loved ones are feeling and experiencing the same things. I recently relocated, leaving a very dear circle of friends in Phoenix. I wondered what those relationships would look like with so many miles between us, and it’s been a beautiful experience. We can’t assume we’ll run into each other at Half Price Books or Storm Wisdom, so we are finding other ways to stay connected. We are finding that not much has changed. : ) The number of miles between us doesn’t affect our bond or connection at all. I work with subtle energy every day, so I knew I would still feel the connections, but some of my friends weren’t sure they would be able to do the same. It’s been wonderful for all of us to connect at the energetic level in a more mindful way. We all feel the relationships growing and deepening across the miles; we are blessed and grateful. With love and light, Pat
Congratulations on your move Pat…, and we’re sorry we won’t be running into you at Storm Wisdom as well. Your intention to stay energetically connected and finding new ways to grow and expand those relationships is wonderful and very honoring! I am sure for any of your friends who care to, they can tap into your connection with a moments thought! A sweet memory, a reminder of advice, and emotional and virtual hug! Thanks for being supportive and staying connected with me. It means a lot!
Amen and Hallelujah, Brotha!! Much Love to you and Mary, xo G
Thanks Ms Kettle!